Sunday, September 4, 2022

Idiosyncrasies...

I have written at some length about the narcissism of the person who -for a good long while- made my life so miserable. Below are few of her more peculiar and spiteful idiosyncrasies (witnessed or recounted.)

 
o   Library/computer suite

After our esteemed head retired in 2018, the school library was closed for refurbishments. As was the computer suite. Our school espoused the credo of reading for pleasure so we looked forward to seeing the changes that would be made. 

We waited. 

And waited. 

The library did not reopen while I was a teacher there. 

Neither did the computer suite: who needs computers in this day and age anyway?...

 
o   Books

I have already detailed the new head’s careless view of other people’s personal property in a previous post: ‘In the Bin’ (30/05/22); the next two anecdotes are related.

When she retired, our previous head told the PTA that she would rather any tokens of gratitude were made to the school rather than herself. This wish was respected, and a considerable number of brand-new quality books were bought for the (soon to become ghost) library. As a gesture of appreciation, each of these books had a personalised message within extolling the work she had done for the school and its children. Shortly after she was recompensed with an MBE for her work in education.  

I talked to two ex-members of staff this weekend.
 
One (let’s call them A) said to me, “her obvious lack of interest and indifference to the beautiful new books was clear.”
 
The other member (let’s say B) said, “It was amazing how these things evaporated. I suggested we put them outside in a box for children to take and enjoy, but, nope, she wanted them disposed of. She's got some kind of issue. She definitely has a large jealous streak about [the previous head].”

When the library re-opened years later, these books were nowhere to be found. 
They had disappeared. Hundreds of pounds squandered. Valuable resources wasted. Spite beyond parallel. 

In addition to the brand-new books ‘disappearing’, A also mentioned that many quality books -in perfectly acceptable condition- were disposed of too: “She stood there once and picked out books on the shelves that weren't pristine and literally threw them in the bin. I tried on numerous occasions to save them, saying they were much loved and well-thumbed rather than not good enough. She told me that if I wanted to give them to charity: ‘feel free’.”
 
B mentioned that some members of staff had managed to save some books but only by having to delve into a skip. “[They were] passionate (to avoid) waste and wanted to ensure they could be put to good use elsewhere by children in need.”

 
o   Plaque

The spite didn't end there. Another of our previous head's passions had been music. In another lovely gesture, after she made a personal gift to the music room, a plaque was unveiled outside the room: it was renamed after her.

You can probably guess how this ended…

The plaque disappeared.

Apparently lost during redecoration. How convenient. Let it be noted that it was never replaced.

 
o   Showing people around

On one occasion, while I was in full swing teaching my Year 6, who should pop in unannounced but the head and a new governor. Rummaging through the children’s English books at the front of the class, in full earshot of the children and myself, she informed the governor that there was nowhere enough work in the books and that the quality was not up to scratch.

I had a lot more experience teaching Year 6 than her, and what is more had achieved consistently good results thus far. The content of my children’s books was high quality and they had been working hard. Such a lack of respect and emotional intelligence: talk about constructive criticism.

There was a pattern of such impromptu visits. Not just in my classroom. They tended to target those of us who she was ‘walking to the door’…

 
o   'My school'

She also had a highly irritating – and revealing - habit of referring to the school as ‘hers’: “I have a dream for my school.” This was noted by many a member of staff: “She’s banging on about ‘her’ school again…”

This extended to actual people too. I remember one very heated conversation when she berated me for talking to her Chair of Governors behind her back. My response that she was not ‘her’, but ‘our’ chair did not go down too well as you can imagine.

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Patterns aplenty and yet...





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